In my energetic youth I spent summers on a church camp staff.
We had a string of international participants who were building up camp director credentials. One of them was from Switzerland, and his English was a work in progress. One day I came into the camp office to hear him singing Santa Claus is Coming To Town, which was strange enough in summer time but on top of that he only had three words down and was singing the whole song with those. C’mon, sing with me now,
Makin’ a list, makin’ a list, makin’ a list, makin’ a list…
Anyway we had company last night, and they’d made a list. Some local folks who visit this blog messaged us about our son’s upcoming move into a group home. As caregivers to more than one kid with special needs, this is ground they’ve covered and they reached out to offer help with our upcoming journey.
They’d taken the trouble to sit down and think through issues – some small and practical, others big stuff like money and emotions – and written a list so they wouldn’t forget to open up any of the subjects.
Actually, they had a couple of lists. One was a record of residents’ share of house expenses so we could start wrapping our heads around the budget. Stuff like trash pickup:
The care giving community is rich in hard won wisdom. It is worthwhile to write notes, keep records, journal, *cough blog cough* and/or just go out for coffee with other caregivers to share info and insight. We’re all holding some great resources with which to help one another.
While I’m at it, a good spiritual habit is to list moments of grace – those unsought, unplanned moments of God’s favor. Those unexpected Thank you, God interventions. Reviewing these can lift our spirits when the inevitable hard days show up,
And I said, “This is my fate; the Most High has turned his hand against me.” But then I recall all you have done, O Lord; I remember your wonderful deeds of long ago. (Psalm 77:10-11)
Last night’s visit goes on that list of God’s wonderful deeds. Our guests shared that it was one of those God things that the first post up on their Facebook feed was our last blog about our son’s placement. We received kind help and good company (and an addictive dessert) through that divine timing.
Allies: we have the Greatest in the heavens and so many He appoints upon the earth. Too many to list, but how moving it would be to try.