Last week I shared about our medical meet & greet with a new doctor for our son with autism.
I mentioned sending the piece to some doctor friends, to get feedback. They’re busy folk, so the responses will take awhile.
Here’s the first, from an Oncologist in South Carolina. He provides a reality check about our hope that a younger doctor will be available to our son over years to come,
All good advice but young physicians are more likely to be employed by hospital systems or large groups and are much more mobile these days. Finding a young physician is no guarantee that he/she will stick around for years in the same position. Also insurance networks change and force you to change doctors.
In other words, as with everything else in care giving, you have to be ready for some roller coaster riding.
I asked a follow-up: Is there a question you wish new patients would ask you but never do?
I rarely have a new patient ask me if I would pray with/for them. I wish that would happen more often. When a new patient shares their faith with me, I am more likely to ask them if I can share prayer with them.
That’s an eye opener, isn’t it? So often, we seek a doctor as we would an auto mechanic. But human beings, including those with special needs, are more than material parts to be fixed. We are much more than that, fearfully and wonderfully made, to quote the Psalms.
I’m hoping to get some input from this guy, too,