No, Melissa and I are not having a fight.
Joey moved out to the couch this week. He does this every year when the Christmas decor goes up. He likes to snooze by the light of the Christmas tree. I blogged a picture of that two years ago.
The rhythms of family life are meaningful. Autism craves order in both macro and micro forms. So not just daily routines but seasonal and annual cycles can be our friends.
Another important aspect of Joey’s annual relocation is that physical environment, even with some quirky changes, can make a difference in the quality of life for a person with autism.
Here’s a useful page from Australia about Workplace Modification. Practical adaptations, such as work table heights, wider aisles for wheelchairs and the like are obvious (or should be).
But so are aesthetic or other tweaks that make the work space more enjoyable. One agency we visited here had Christmas lights rigged to come on each time the worker completed a particular task. (Note: such adaptations are highly individual, because the flashing light that gives pleasure to one person can be a seizure trigger for another).
Holidays are times when most of us modify our homes. They are an opportunity to discover changes that make life more comfortable and pleasurable for those in our care.